5 Actionable Tips for Deciding One of the most frequent questions I get from readers and clients is this one. Should I leave? Should I leave my unhappy marriage? Should I leave the job I hate? Should I move across the country and start over in a new place? When things are all but unbearably bad where were are, we want to get away from where we are. That’s perfectly normal. Ask the real question... The real question isn’t should I leave? The real question is, will things be

5 Actionable Tips for Deciding One of the most frequent questions I get from readers and clients is this one. Should I leave? Should I leave my unhappy marriage? Should I leave the job I hate? Should I move across the country and start over in a new place? When things are all but unbearably bad where were are, we want to get away from where we are. That’s perfectly normal. Ask the real question... The real question isn’t should I leave? The real question is, will things be

5 Actionable Tips for Deciding One of the most frequent questions I get from readers and clients is this one. Should I leave? Should I leave my unhappy marriage? Should I leave the job I hate? Should I move across the country and start over in a new place? When things are all but unbearably bad where were are, we want to get away from where we are. That’s perfectly normal. Ask the real question... The real question isn’t should I leave? The real question is, will things be

It’s not his job to make me happy, and it’s not my job to make him happy. Happiness is an inside job Some of us want our partner to be responsible for our well being. We blame them for our misery and credit them with our joy, when the truth is, our misery and our joy are far beyond their ability to control. We need to find those things within ourselves. Our approach is simple. We figure we’ll have 80 or 90 years here on planet Earth in this lifetime. We further figure we have

It’s not his job to make me happy, and it’s not my job to make him happy. Happiness is an inside job Some of us want our partner to be responsible for our well being. We blame them for our misery and credit them with our joy, when the truth is, our misery and our joy are far beyond their ability to control. We need to find those things within ourselves. Our approach is simple. We figure we’ll have 80 or 90 years here on planet Earth in this lifetime. We further figure we have